Condition the Mind and Body for Majestic Well-aged Sex

Shadows of Shame As burgeoning adults, whenever we had a relatively private corner, orgasm was waiting. Coming took less time than going back to the reality of shadow-less sunlight. This was the teaching world of sexual dysfunction. Sex was quick and guilty and the ashes of shame lingered. Guilt loves sex and often makes our fantasy world a permanent home; by the time one is ready for true … [Read more...]
Erotic Massage: The Wanted Touch Should Never be Left Wanting Part 4

Sensual touch carves a pathway through anger. In the months since we began this series on Erotic Touch we hope that you have practiced massage with a confident reach that tries to grasp ecstasy. Also, if you are remotely like us you will have found many reasons to be angry with each other. This anger may have not been fully expressed between you. This is destructive. Anger that withdraws feeds … [Read more...]
Erotic Massage: The Artist of Touch Part 3

The Artist of Touch forever sets the stage set for an encore performance. The bedroom of lovers should smell like the sweet, musky sweat of the lovers. The bed must invite like the well-used nest of mating raptors. Fluffy towels and pillows that invite touch should suggest there is no room in this revered space for ornamental floss. This space is sacred. This is not a show place that reeks of a … [Read more...]
Erotic Massage: The Poetry of Intimacy Part 2

Presume you are free to float above stereotyped childlike notions of beauty as you imagine yourselves naked in each other’s arms and relishing the teasing nature of touch. We will now distract your mood with detail. For our sexual surrogate business we have a massage table designed to make a clientcomfortable while lying face down. The table is narrow and high enough to allow us to stand and … [Read more...]
Erotic Massage: The Poetry of Intimacy Part 1

When I was a child stumbling through puberty I tripped on a novel considered daringly erotic for the time: A story of two lovers separated by caste and joined by passion. The man was a laborer, tough and callused; his lover a lady, silky and tender. He cherished the feel of her honeyed skin, but work gnarled his fingers and made leather of his palms. To protect her sensitive body and guard his … [Read more...]
Success Is The Desire To Keep Reaching

Experience the eternal moment as it flows ever-changing through life’s reach for eternity that appears with a wish and in the breath of a whisper is gone. When we are absorbed in the moment the past flows silent without regret. And the future is but a fraction of the ever-evolving present. Sadly, ‘living in the moment’ has become an impotent expression. Like a beautiful scarlet vase … [Read more...]
Sexual Beauty of Gray Makes Fiction of Solitary Play

Our visually-obsessed world demands we look then dream in solitary play. But a touch of gray makes fiction of anorexic distortions that tell touch to stay away. In ages past, Gray implied colorless, sexless aging. In today’s world, gray begins to show on temples and with silvery flecks through shady hair long before sexuality has reached the pinnacle that only maturity can bring. The young … [Read more...]
Sexual Touch: The Two-Way Street of Making Love

When we touch a lover with a lingering hand, emotions flow through our fingers like warm silken sand. The sense of touch is the two-way street of making love. We feel the one we touch as they lounge in the pleasure of that touch. Fingertips, like lips, have complex nerve endings that when developed allow us to visualize what we touch as we feel it by touching when our touching is light. As we … [Read more...]
The Sense of Touch Defines with Time

The sense of touch. Fingertips, elbows and lips; eyelids, ankles and hips: They all grow more sensitive when touched gently with time. His lips whisper a touch on that marvelous line that begins at the ear and quivers and shivers on down to my spine. The magic disappears when I touch myself there; I cannot mimic this illusive sensation with my own searching fingers. It is so much different when … [Read more...]
How to Spice Up Your Relationship

Would you like to know how spice up your relationship? Researchers in India found that Yoga can improve sex life in women. While the sample was small, consisting of 40 women between the ages of 22 and 55 years old, the results were impressive showing better orgasms for women , according to Dr Girish Karmarkar, a Mumbai-based sexologist. The results of the experiment were recently published in … [Read more...]