Creating Balance in our After-50 Years
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By Nancy Merz Nordstrom
A greatly admired older friend of mine once said that a balanced life, after leaving full-time work, should be composed of one-third work, one-third play, and one-third giving back.
For those of us in our “After 50 Years,” the opportunity to make that balanced life a reality comes once we bid adieu to the nine-to-five world. After that, it’s time to find the tools we need to create new life balance. One of the most important of these tools is Lifelong Learning.
What is Lifelong Learning? Quite simply, it’s a belief or philosophy that espouses one simple fact: maintaining an active mind and youthful spirit creates a balanced life. It’s an opportunity to make your own unique contribution to society, to meet new people and to explore new ideas. I like to think of it as a “health club” for your mind, your body and your spirit!
Recent studies at the National Institute on Aging have shown that those who keep their minds actively engaged in new learning say they are happier and feel more fulfilled than older adults who do not. Dr. Paul Nussbaum, a well-known authority on brain research and aging agrees, saying, “In the 21st century, education and information may become for the brain what exercise is for the heart.”
Studies conducted during the 1990’s – the Decade of the Brain - have shown that keeping brains active helps retain mental alertness as people age. Scientists discovered that the brain -- even an aging brain -- can grow new connections and pathways when challenged and stimulated. The brain’s physical anatomy actually responds to enriching mental activities. Lifelong Learning is a fantastic way to provide enrichment for our hungry brains!
Lifelong Learning expands your intellectual, social, spiritual, and physical horizons far beyond what you might have previously thought possible. There are four major ways to use Lifelong Learning to enrich your life and create balance.
First, join a Lifelong Learning program. These programs are inexpensive, curriculum-based, non-credit, college-level programs usually run by and for older adults. They are open to mature learners, regardless of previous academic history. In other words, you don’t need any type of degree to participate. All you need is a desire to explore and have fun.
Secondly, if your budget permits, take off into the world of educational travel programs -- fun and enlightening ways to learn about a country’s history, culture, and politics. These aren’t your typical vacations; while you do see beautiful and historic sites, you will also attend lectures, meet the local inhabitants and actively learn about the country -- the things they don’t show you on the usual tours. You will be challenged to expand your perspectives and global viewpoints. At the same time, you will develop lasting memories and friendships.
Next, get involved in meaningful community service; use your skills and experiences to help enrich the lives of others. Meaningful community service is all about engaging in whatever endeavor enriches your life and feeds your soul. In fact, volunteers routinely encounter new perspectives and ideas that challenge as much as they enlighten. There’s nothing like helping others. It helps put your own life into perspective and balance.
Finally, use the Internet to continue learning. Where else can you learn any time of the day or night? Where else can you learn independent of distance, time and place? Where else can you learn anything you want? Thanks to the incredible growth of the Internet, anything and everything you want to know can be found with the click of a mouse or the tap of a finger. If you already have a computer and a connection to the Internet, you’re ready to start learning.
Now, more than ever before, it’s vitally important to add Lifelong Learning to your “After-50 Years.” Doing so will foster a sense of personal empowerment and increase your self-esteem. It will also ensure your continued growth and intellectual stimulation.
Lifelong Learning helps balance our minds, our bodies and our spirits. When we are balanced we feel great. And feeling great leads us on to explore other things. It's a wonderful circle of enhanced wellness that helps create an enriched later life. Using the Lifelong Learning “health club” means our minds will be more stimulated, our bodies more active, and our spirits more fulfilled.
As David, a Lifelong Learner from New York says, “We base everything on the belief that our capacity to learn and grow does not decrease as our years increase. In fact, through learning and the adventures we embark on, we actually embrace self-fulfillment.”
Nancy Merz Nordstrom (Email: learninglater@comcast.net) is the author of Learning Later, Living Greater: The Secret for Making
the Most of Your After 50 Years (Culture Tools) Nancy is on the faculty of Computer School for Seniors (www.cs4seniors) and blogs at www.computersavvyseniors.blogspot.com.. Her website can be found at http://www.learninglater.com
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